Dating Advice for Men & Women:Are You Dating a Narcissist ~ Is it All About Them?
If you are dating someone that is excessively talking about themselves & constantly craving admiration, you are in for a one sided relationship. Watch out for the red flags early on for this type of behavior! That what dating is for; to weed out the wrong people that are all about drama and to find a compatible reciprocated loving partnership.
Everyone comes into your life for a reason whether you like that cliche or not. Dating can be a stepping stone to finding out who you really are yourself. If you are attracting narcissistic people towards you it could be due to your own self esteem issues. You may not feel worthy of being in a great relationship or you may have a softer personality so you settle for controlling people who take charge and call all the shots.
Once you realize that you “deserve” a loving relationship, you will be clearer about what you will allow on your life path. We have all kissed a few toads, warts and all, but that is what makes life interesting. We can then appreciate finding that special someone that fits into our world when we are ready. Experimentation is part of a learning curve from our childhood to being an adult. Each decade teaches us how to move forward & understand what our purpose is in this lifetime. It’s all good to keep learning but we have to know when to move on from unhealthy scenarios.
I love this quote ~ “The teacher appears when the student is ready.”
Susan McCord @ http://www.facebook.com/DatingRelationshipTalkShow